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Tuesday, May 25, 2010

KIta Butuh The "Nanny"

Yup ceritanya saya habis solat ashar ni. Kebetulan pas waktu ambil air wudu tadi saya bertemu dengan teman-teman dan terciptalah obrolan itu. Ya kami mengupas sedikit tentang rekan kerja kami yaitu mas Ishak. Ya ada apa dengan mas Ishak? sebenarnya tidak ada apa-apa dengan Mas Ishak, hanya saja yang membuat berita adalah dia datang ke kantor membawa anak bayinya yang baru berumur 4 bulan. Ya saya masih ingat istrinya itu melahirkan ketika kita sedang menjalani masa orientasi CPNS di Ciawi, Bogor.
Beneath it all i met him this midday after i prayed. He was carrying a baby. And when i  asked him, yup he admitted if the baby was his child. He also introduced his wife to me. Oh my God, his wife is so slim for a woman who has just given birth a baby. Amazing...
Oh yeah At that time he told me that his wife was visiting him. I thought that was right, actually that was right and yet after i heard confession, i knew something. He was carrying his baby to office because there is no Nanny at his home and his wife has been a week absent from work. So, he carried his baby to office and his wife went to work and  because his wife just work untill half day, his wife came to take her baby. oh Like That.. and how about his family? Hi family is far away with him. The other words, not in the same town here. But what happened today, that impressed me much. How can? yup, can you imagine a man carries a baby to office? i call it a sacrifice and that what a husband for. So, we should have a commitment. Commitment before and after marriage. Commitment how we will go through the days in our marriage. Understanding each other is needed. And what will happen to me? will i have a husband like that ? a husband that will sacrifice for his wife and children? But of course, i will learn to figure out him dan his job.....
THat's why here, i want to say that we can't live without the others. We need the others. The nanny, The baby sitter, or maid ..or whatever it is called....The nanny  that can look after our baby safely while we are working...

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